Being a parent has to be the toughest and most rewarding job you’ll ever have. As parents, we must make decisions every day that either work out in our favor or backfire. So when it comes to a discussion as complex as talking to our kids about sex, it’s no wonder many decide to neglect such talk rather than make the whole thing awkward.
Our children live in a highly sexualized society where they are exposed to sexual language, images, and behaviors before they are developmentally prepared to handle them. Kids, especially those going through puberty are still trying to understand the changes their body is going through, and the urges they get. Exposure to sexual content in their everyday life is in no way helping – rather it is giving them a go-ahead.
Most experts agree that talking to your kids about sex early often seems to be the best strategy. After all, you don’t want to wait and have “the talk” all at once—especially since conversations about sex should be age-appropriate, timely, and hopefully, take place before your teen is sexually active. While you may already know the importance of sex education, you may not know how to approach the topic with your kids.
Children see us when we are not even noticing. If you are comfortable talking about sex with your kids and you provide an environment that encourages questions, discussion, and a judgment-free zone, there’s a good chance your child will want to come to you for information and advice well into their teen years.
Use this time to build stronger bonds with your younger kids and teens. Allow them to see that you can meet them where they are and respect the world they live in. Remember, the relationship you create now will be there for years to come.
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