The violence in the world nowadays surrounds our kids, as seen in the news, in our environment, and even in their schools. Our children are exposed to stories, images, and videos of violence that frightens them.
The recent happening in the country is one example of the kind of violence that our kids are exposed to. As their parents, the best way to help these kids cope with violent issues is by being there to talk to them, provide accurate information while teaching them about values.
Here are some tips you can use to help you talk to your kids on how they can cope with violence.
Encourage them to talk about what they see or hear. You should be in sync with your child’s feelings and encourage them to talk about what they have seen or heard. You can also initiate a conversation by talking about a show you watched with them or probably asking for their opinion concerning g what they saw in the news. “How do you feel after seeing people injured on TV?”
Limit their exposure. Research has shown that kids exposed to violence via movies or video games tend to get desensitized to violence, this means they are less likely to feel shocked at the sight of any violence. This is why there has been lots of talk about kids playing certain games like PUBG (Players Unknown Battleground) and Call of Duty as they tend to expose children them to violence at an early age.
Provide tools to help cope with their feelings. Suggest ways that your kids can express themselves rather than getting violent. Teach them to use words instead of getting physical. For example, ‘if a classmate takes her toy and after asking for it the child refuses to drop it, tell her to walk away from such a situation.’
Teach them about bullies. Violence in school can occur as a result of a child bullying yours. Read more on how to address your child being bullied and if your child is the bully.
Watch and control your behavior. Be aware that your kids are watching you, and they are learning from you without you even knowing. Be careful of the way you address argument when angry, be a model of good behavior if you want to raise a non-violent child.
Seek help when necessary. If you are worried about your child’s behavior, contact a professional in the school or at your hospital.
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